A question I often get asked by men is, ‘What turns women on?’. I can only know what women tell me, of course. And what I read in research papers. Generally, guys, it’s not rubbing her clitoris or anything like that. At least, not initially – that comes later.
Here are some of the things that, in a long term relationship, you can do to put your partner in the mood:
- Wash the dishes
- Help with the housework
- Be supportive when she has worries
- Show your appreciation for her.
If you were hoping for something more erotic then I’m sorry to disappoint you. And, of course, it’s no good doing the dishes only when you want sex. It’s not that washing plates is sexy in itself. It isn’t. The point is that when a woman feels valued, loved and cared-for, so she feels the desire to welcome you into her body. That means showing your appreciation all the time. Which, as it happens, is also the recipe for a happy relationship. So what’s not to like?
Ladies, I’d like to hear from you as to what turns you on. Please click on the word ‘comment’ at the top of this article.